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The Balancing and Synthesis of the Opposites
by Roberto Assagioli, MD
Polarity is a universal fact; it is inherent in cosmic
manifestation. It is true that the Ultimate and Supreme Reality
is the One, the Absolute, the Transcendent; but it can only be
defined by what it is not.
From the very moment that cosmic manifestation begins to
unfold, duality is horn. The first fundamental duality is
precisely that between manifestation and the Unmanifest. In the
Bhagavad Gita this is expressed in the words: "Having
pervaded the whole Universe with a fragment of myself, I
remain." In the process of manifestation the fundamental
polarity is that of Spirit and Matter.
It is at once necessary to state that all polarity is a
relationship between two elements, and that, as such, it
is never absolute, but relative even to a particular pair of
opposites: the same element can be positive in its relation to a
certain "pole" and negative in its relation to another.
An instance of the relativity of the "polar
relationships" exists in the fundamental polarity' between
Spirit and Matter. According to some, Spirit is the free and
transcendent Reality which stands above the various pairs of
opposites existing in manifested life. Such is the conception of
Keyserling, contained in his book, From Suffering to
Fulfillment (London; Selwyn and Blount) (cf. also Das Buch
von Personlichen Leben (Stuttgart: Deutsche Verlag Anstalt,
1936), by the same writer, p. 505-510-515.) According to others,
Spirit corresponds to the positive pole, to the dynamic and
creative element in all duality. Such is Jung's idea. In other
words, Keyserling regards the "tension" between Spirit
and the various manifestations of life as existing in a vertical"
direction, which he refers to as the "dimension of
intensity," while Jung conceives polarity more as a
horizontal relationship.
Physical Polarity
In the physical world, the most commonly recognized polarity
is that between the positive and negative poles in electricity.
This polarity is the basis of the constitution of matter since,
as is well known, each atom contains charges of electricity
differentiated into a positive nucleus and a varying number of
negative electrons. Electric polarity manifests itself in various
ways which have many practical applications, as in induced and
alternating currents, etc. Interesting analogies can be found in
various polarities in the field of psychology, such as emotional
attraction and repulsion, ambivalence and the
"compensatory" function.
Within living organisms, such as the human body, there are
various polarities. One of the most important is that between the
sympathetic and the parasympathetic nervous Systems; the former
stimulates catabolism, the latter assimilation or anabolism.
Other polarities exist between the different endocrine
glands.
One of the most important and general polarities in the three
kingdoms of organic life (vegetable, animal and human) is the
sexual. The positive pole is represented by the masculine
element, the negative by the feminine element. This does not mean
that the former is active and the latter passive. Both are
active, but in a different way, the masculine element being the
dynamic, initiating pole, while the feminine element is the
receptive, "gestative," elaborative pole. This type of
polarity extends far beyond the man-woman relationship to
innumerable manifestations in life. It has been particularly and
deeply emphasized by the Chinese who regard these two principles
as the foundation both of cosmic evolution and of every aspect of
human life. The creative aspect, symbolized by the father and
Heaven, they call Yang, while Yin is the receptive and
elaborative aspect, symbolized by the mother and the Earth. The
well-being of Man depends, in the view of Chinese philosophy, on
the harmonious accord between Man and the cyclic evolution of the
Universe, woven from the innumerable relationships and
interactions of Yang and Yin. (1)
Emotional Polarity
In the field of the emotions and feelings we find those
dualities which are familiar to all: pleasure-pain;
excitement-depression; confidence-fear; attraction-repulsion;
love-hate. Such is their extent that one might say that the life
of the average human being is based on his emotional reactions to
things, to events and to persons. These reactions have a definite
function and purpose, provided they are maintained within
appropriate hounds. But if we allow them to take over-as too
often is the case-we are apt to become their slaves. Later we
shall consider how the limitations of these opposites can be
overcome.
Mental Polarity
In the mental realm there is the polarity between the
analytical activity of the concrete mind and the synthetic
operation of the abstract intelligence; between the inductive
process (from the particular to the general) and the deductive
process (from the general to the particular).
Consideration of the human personality in its totality
discloses various fundamental polarities which have been
extensively investigated by modern psychology. The knowledge
about the human being acquired in this process has stimulated the
development of important psychological, educational and
psychotherapeutic techniques. The principal polarities here are:
Body-Psyche; Consciousness-the Unconscious; the lower
Unconscious-the Superconscious; Pathos (Receptivity, Sensitivity,
Reactivity)-Ethos (Activity, Dynamism, Will); Eros
(Feeling)-Logos (Reason).
Spiritual Polarity
The fundamental duality in the spiritual realm is that
existing between the personality and the Transpersonal Self, a
polarity which is the cause of many inner conflicts, until
harmonious relationships and an increasing blending or
unification (spiritual psychosynthesis) are achieved.
Interindividual Polarity
There are also many "inter-individual" polarities
which are of the utmost importance. The most and fundamental one
is that existing, on all levels, between Man and Woman. Then
there is that between adults and young people, particularly in
the interaction between parents and their children. There are,
further, the various relationships between individuals and the
different groups to which they belong.
Among them we find the family considered as a unit, as a
"psychic entity," which is made up not only of members
who are alive, but also of ancestral influences and family
traditions. Such influences are sometimes a help to the
individual, offering him an ideal and a way of life which he may
be encouraged to live by. Other times, and perhaps more often,
they may hem him in and even oppress him.
Then come the social groups of different kinds (social and
professional classes, cultural and religious groups, nations)
with which the individual may find himself associated, in a
condition of passive subordination or of cooperation, as leader
and directing agent or in conflict. Similar relationships exist
among groups; both among those of the same kind and size, i.e.,
between families and families, classes and classes, nations and
nations, etc.; and the "hierarchical" ones, between the
family and the state; classes and nations; between a state and a
federation of states.
Two kinds of polarities which are of great importance are that
between the northern and southern individuals and groups in each
nation and continent and that between Western and Eastern
peoples.
Balancing Opposite Poles
Each of these numerous polarities confronts us with the
problem of their interplay and balancing. The following is a
brief survey of the general principles and methods of balancing
opposite poles with the object of resolving "polar
tensions:"
- Fusion of the two poles, involving the neutralization
of their charges of energy.
- Creation of a new being, of a new reality.
- Adjustment of the opposite poles, by means of an
"intermediary center" or of a principle higher than
both. A regulating action of this kind can be brought about in
two ways:
- By diminishing the amplitude of the oscillations between the
two extremes, at times even to vanishing point, thus inducing a
more or less complete neutralization ("the happy
medium"). An instance of this, of great actual interest, is
the oscillation between excessive authority and uncontrolled
freedom in education and the search for a balanced attitude.
- By consciously and wisely directing the alternations so that
the result is harmonious and constructive, and in accord with the
cyclic alternations of both individual and general, human and
cosmic, conditions. (This is the method taught by Chinese
philosophy and particularly by the I Ching.)
- Synthesis, brought about by a higher element or
principle which transforms, sublimates and reabsorbs the two
poles into a higher reality.
The different types of polarity require correspondingly
appropriate solutions. Man often has the freedom -- and
consequently the responsibility -- of choosing between different
methods of balancing. It should, however, be pointed out that the
indicated solutions are not always as clear tut as the above
enumeration might lead one to believe. Sometimes, as the
following examples will show, they can overlap or be combined in
various ways.
In the field of electricity, the most simple outcome is
neutralization through the fusion of the positive and negative
charges. However, the conditions in which this fusion is effected
determine the results, which are thus subject to considerable
variation. When, for instance, the poles are brought towards each
other, and the voltage with which they are charged overcomes the
resistance of the medium which separates them, a discharge is
produced which manifests as a spark. Lightning is an instance of
this phenomenon. When, on the other hand, the poles are kept
apart but connected by a conducting wire, with some
"resistance" introduced at a point along the conducting
wire, the electrical energy becomes susceptible to various
transformations. This latter process is being utilized with
increasing ingenuity in the transformation of electricity into
light, into heat, or into movement. In these cases the process of
neutralization produces various useful effects. In the biological
realm, health can be defined as a dynamic equilibrium ever
threatened and ever restored between a series of polarities, such
as exist between the divisions of the nervous system, between
various endocrine glands, and in general between the anabolic and
catabolic functions. In the same way, psychological life can
be regarded as a continual polarization and tension between
differing tendencies and functions, and as a continual effort,
conscious or not, to establish equilibrium. Among the most
important psychological polarities are: impulse-inhibition;
feeling-reason; extroversion-introversion.
ln sexual polarity, the union of the two physical elements has
a creative effect. The dynamism of their fusion brings about the
birth of a new organism similar to that of the parents. In
humanity this wonderful physical creative function is closely
associated with the psychological polarities, and this often
produces very complex situations and difficult problems.
In the fields of drives, emotions and feelings, the balancing
of opposite qualities requires the intervention of a higher
regulating principle of a mental or transpersonal nature. The
first task is to prevent the drives and the emotions from
overwhelming and submerging the reason and the will. The best way
to achieve this is to learn how to disidentify oneself from them
at will, in order to be free at any time to maintain the
"I", the center of consciousness, on a higher level
above them, in order to be able to observe and evaluate them, and
to wisely regulate them as needed.
Let us make it clear that to regulate does not mean to
"suppress," and that this does not in any way lead to
aridity or a lack of sensitivity. Let us, for example, consider a
fundamental polarity, pleasure-pain. As long as we remain slaves
of this duality, always actively seeking pleasure and fearfully
fleeing from pain, we shall not find lasting peace or permanent
satisfaction. On the other hand, a forced inhibition, an
artificial impassivity, certainly does not constitute a
satisfactory solution. This can only be arrived at by means of
that clear insight which enables us to understand the causes, the
nature and the functions of both pleasure and pain. This insight
carries the recognition that, in accepting pleasure without
craving for it and attachment to it, and in accepting pain, when
unavoidable, without fearing it and rebelling against it, one can
learn much from both pleasure and pain, and "distill the
essence" which they contain. Moreover, one can gradually
raise the quality and level of these "opposites"; one
passes by degrees from the physical pleasures in and of
themselves to the joys of feeling and of the mind, finally
experiencing spiritual joy. One makes one's way from physical
suffering to emotional troubles, to intellectual turmoil, then to
compassion for the sufferings of others and then of the whole
human race. From all these experiences one gathers the fruits of
wisdom, and learns to keep the center of consciousness stabilized
more arid more at a level above the alternations of personal
pleasure and pain. Finally we can acquire the ability to identify
ourselves with the Universal Life, with the Supra-Individual
Self, with the Supreme, which transcends all
"opposites" in ineffable bliss.
If we examine more closely the specific polarities of the
emotional field, we can clearly distinguish two main types of
solutions. One is realized on the same level; it can be called
"the middle way" of compromise, the blending of the two
poles. The other solution is achieved at a higher level: it is
the fusion of the poles into a higher synthesis.
The method of synthesis which is analogous in a certain sense
to a chemical combination, includes and absorbs the two elements
into a higher unity endowed with qualities differing from those
of either of them. The difference between the solutions achieved
through compromise and those brought about through synthesis can
be clearly indicated by a triangular diagram. Here are a few
examples:
| Benevolent Understanding |
| Sympathy |
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Antipathy |
| Indifference |
| Serenity |
| Excitement |
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Depression |
| Apathetic Calm |
| Clear Vision of Reality |
| Blind |
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Practical |
| Fearful |
Spiritual Acceptance and Elimination of the Cause of the Painful Situation |
| Rebellion |
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Compromise in Behavior |
| Submission |
The polarity between "mind" and "heart",
between reason and feeling (Logos and Eros), is
regulated in the first place by the recognition of their
respective functions and of the legitimate field of action of
each of the two functions, so that neither dominates the other.
This can be followed by a mutual and increasing cooperation and
interpenetration between the two, finally arriving at the
synthesis so well expressed by Dante in the words
"Intellectual light full of love."
The polarity between sensitivity and receptivity
(Pathos) and dynamism or Will (Ethos) which, in a
wider sense, corresponds to psychosexual polarity -- for the
former pole is the "feminine" and the latter the
"masculine" modality -- can also at first be controlled
by a balanced adjustment, to be superseded by a creative
synthesis.
The fundamental polarity between the human personality as a
whole and the spiritual Self can also be resolved into a unity.
This is the aim of the process of harmonization and transmutation
involving a protracted series of conflicts, approaches, and
contacts, each producing partial, increasingly expanded fusions.
In short, this is the process of spiritual psych~ synthesis. It
constitutes the noble effort, the central drama of Man who,
either consciously or unconsciously, aspires to this high goal,
or is pushed towards it by his inability to find lasting
satisfaction or a true peace until he has attained it.
The interaction between the Self and the personality creates a
series of "triangular" relationships similar to those
previously indicated. Here are some of them:
| Spiritual Dignity |
Self-Depreciation (Inferiority Complex) |
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Arrogance (Superiority Complex) |
| Modesty |
| Spiritual Understanding |
| Intellectual Doubt |
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Common Sense |
| Dogmatism |
| Transmutation and Sublimation |
| Licence |
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Temperance |
| Repression |
| Spiritual Energy |
| Weakness |
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Violence |
Equiliberated Human Force |
The various equilibrations, adjustments and syntheses can be
produced in different ways. At times, they are preceded by
intense crises and conflicts. In other cases they are reached in
a more gradual and harmonious way by means of a progressive
decrease in the oscillations of the "pendulum". A clear
understanding of this process of synthesis enables one to achieve
it more easily and rapidly. The essential requirement, as
previously mentioned, is to avoid identifying oneself with either
of the two opposite poles, and to control, transmute, and direct
their energies from a higher center of awareness and
power.
Notes
1. Numerous Chinese texts deal with this point. One of the
most interesting is the I Ching or The Book of
Transformations, which, disguised under the form of a method
of divination, contains treasures of wisdom. Jung, in The
Secret of the Golden Flower, and also Keyserling, expressed
great appreciation of it.
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